I wonder if anyone will be reading this today.. it is such a busy time of the year.. Maybe I am writing this just for me and that’s OK too. This has been a long year for me and the most difficult year of my life.. the end is in sight and sometime in the first week in January I will be moving again.. I moved three months ago and that was very traumatic.. I pray everyday that the Lord will help me make another transition and that His Grace will sustain me.
Life is so unpredictable.. the future is so unclear and that is really for everyone not just me. We never know what will happen next to turn our lives inside out or upside down.. life is so fragile but we try not to think about that. It is so easy to get comfortable and to forget that this life can change in a moment. I am not writing this to upset anyone.. after all it is Christmas Eve and isn’t it a time to celebrate? For some of us that is exactly what will be happening but for others.. including myself, it is a lonely night and a sad night because people we love are missing from our lives and no one can take their place. I am going to visit my husband in skilled nursing today and he will not understand that it is Christmas Eve or that I am lonely because we no longer live together and he is ill. Maybe that is for the best.. but he will be very glad to see me as he is every day and he will tell me that he loves me as he does every time.. even though he has lost much of his ability to remember and to speak clearly he still has his whole heart and the spirit of God is still working through him.. I am so grateful.
I feel very vulnerable sharing this with you.. but somehow my blog seems like the place to express the real things in my life.. something I probably need to do right now. So this is a hard day for me.. a hard season.. a hard year. Next week I will have another birthday and remember that 18 years ago on my birthday my husband asked me to marry him. He is still the love of my life and will always be.. I am thankful for all these years.. even the current ones that have been so challenging. I have learned to treasure the moments because I don’t know how many more I will have.. I have discovered that this life is fleeting and we never know when it will end or when someone we love might get sick or die.. It is out of our hands..
Probably the biggest gift of this season is the way I able to see the Lord caring for me and guiding my steps as I stumble along. He makes himself known in many different ways each day. He works through His people to encourage and love me.. He is truly Emmanuel.. GOD WITH US! It is not just a name… it is who He is..
I need him every minute of every day just to continue to have hope and to believe that He will bring good out of this tragedy.. there is no other way to survive. So the name Emmanuel has become real to me this year and I am thankful.
My prayer for you is that you encounter the Lord in this season.. that the things of this world will disappear as you come close to Him.. in your brokenness.. in your grief and sadness.. Christmas is a time to be real with Him to allow Him to become more real to you.. We live in dark times and there are so many things that steal our joy and hope in this dark world.. We need Him more than ever.. He is our sanctuary, our peace and our hope.
You comfort many. I hope you are comforted as well. There is a certain peace with this blog.
Thank you.. I always hope that God will use it to bring comfort and peace
Hugs Alicia in this season, of love, joy, peace and sadness within your heart. May the Lord say unto you … peace be still, through all you are going through. May you feel His mighty, yet gentle presence lift you above all of the circumstances that surround you. Happy birthday for when it arrives.
Thank you so much.. I need that peace that only He can bring every moment of each day.. Merry Christmas and blessings.. Alicia
God bless you, my dear sister. Thank you for your lovely words, and God bless your Christmas day as you walk through it minute by minute. Much love from me
Thanks Susan.. He is with me and I am thankful for every glimpse of that presence.. I hope you have a wonderful holiday.
Oh Alicia, thank you so much for posting this. It touched my heart. It made me cry. The timing perfect… praying for you. Katie T.
Thank you Katie.. I am thankful if God uses my words for others.. otherwise the suffering seems wasted.. I know it is all for His glory!
My dear friend, I cannot imagine the difficulty and grief of this time in your life and words are inadequate to express my heart for you and Steve in this moment. Know that you are being lifted up before the throne of your Father. Already He is using your suffering to bring encouragement to others. He is with us indeed. O come Emmanuel.
Thank you Merrill.. I appreciate the prayers.. this is the hardest trial I have ever experienced and I long for the day when all of the suffering is over for all of us.. love you, Alicia